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Here are the key takeaways from a conversation between one curious patient and two nurse practitioners about the evolution of healthcare, and what both sides can do to make every interaction less stressful and more effective.
An Evolving Partnership
The relationship between patients and their primary care clinicians is intended to be a partnership. The patient rightfully expects a practitioner to be a medical expert, while the practitioner expects the patient to be an expert on their lived experience. A patient must know the “what, when, and how” of their symptoms and lifestyle, in order for a practitioner to answer the question of “what might be contributing to or causing” the health issue. Then, together they can decide how to move forward.
As the laws, regulations, and insurance companies’ involvement in healthcare have changed, so have treatment options, costs, and practitioner schedules. This can result in a practitioner feeling pressed for time and restricted in their options, and a patient feeling unseen in their suffering or distrustful of the system. What can change to improve this experience for both parties?
The nurse practitioners interviewed, Corey and Allison, explained how the future of that relationship is less about who holds the clipboard and more about how both sides prepare, listen, and collaborate. This partnership can be meaningful, satisfying, and efficient when we know our roles and responsibilities.
Research Respectfully
Balance and trust in the patient-practitioner relationship has changed as technology, information, and “content” availability has moved from accessible to overwhelming. In the past, a practitioner was trusted as the expert and the only source of information for medical decisions, save for a potential second opinion. Now, some patients come in asking for tests or medications they want prescribed, without understanding the practitioner’s protocols, viewpoints, or deep understanding of physiology.
The NPs I talked to agreed that this is not a problem of too much information. The problem arises when there are nefarious sources and motivations behind the release of information. “I welcome people coming with curiosity… it shows that they’re doing their research,” Allison told us. “But patients don’t always find credible information.”
Corey offered some specific research advice: rather than using AI to look for a diagnosis or a treatment plan, look for what other information your practitioner might need surrounding your specific symptoms. Search the follow up questions your doctor might ask and attend your appointment equipped with the answers.
The advice from both NPs wasn’t “don’t Google it.” It was more, “bring your thought process, and not a verdict”, as this allows for more space for true collaboration.
Patients: Be the Expert on Your Experience (Not the Diagnosis)
Returning to an early concept in the article, a patient isn’t expected to know “why” something is happening, but they do need to be able to describe the “what” and the “how”. Arrive at your appointments prepared to describe symptoms thoroughly:
- Onset & timeline: when it started, how it’s changed.
- Pattern: frequency, duration, triggers, what helps/what worsens.
- Impact: sleep, work, mood, daily function.
- Context: other clinicians seen since last visit and what they did to/for/with you.
Come Prepared And Collaborative
A top challenge identified by both nurse practitioners interviewed was patients arriving with demands for specific tests or treatments “Just because we can do a test doesn’t mean we should—or at least maybe not first, and not without a plan”, said Allison.
So, what’s the solution? Well, it can be as simple as providing an explanation of where you got the idea. Many clinicians are not purposefully holding back on assessments or treatments, but rather are seeking to better understand the patient perspective. This can feel like a roadblock if there is a miscommunication.
Corey explained why it matters when a patient says, “I follow this influencer; they think I have parasites; can you run these labs?” Even if the idea came from social media, that backstory actually helps the clinician see how you formed trust and allows them to reference the source directly. There are reputable clinicians and scientists on social media, and there are misguided influencers as well. Helping the patient discern between the two can transform a moment of misinformation into an opportunity for shared learning and deeper collaboration.
Allison often asks a clarifying question in response to requests for lab testing such as “What are we going to do with this information and is it going to be beneficial?” For instance, if drawing a hormone panel won’t change a treatment plan, it may leave a patient feeling more frustrated when the numbers come back normal and they still don’t feel “normal”.
Another tip from the practitioners is that patients not show up to defend a position, but that they show up ready to explain their thought process and their sources with an open mind for input. Here are some examples of reframing a request for a treatment or test:
- “Here’s the ad I saw, here are the ingredients, and here’s why I thought it might help. What are your thoughts? Is it safe with these other medications I take?”
- “I’m worried about X, would a hormone panel help determine the cause? Would those results affect my options for treatment?”
The idea is not to avoid testing or dismiss the patient’s ideas and requests. Instead, it is to redirect curiosity into productive dialogue, where both the patient and practitioner can ensure that testing and interventions are meaningful, and that they are guided by evidence, context, and the patient’s lived experience.
Cost, Codes, and Common Sense
A practical reality patients rarely see is that every lab requires a diagnostic code. “For every lab I order, I have to associate a code/diagnosis”, Corey said. “I’m responsible for those results. If there’s no good indication, insurance may not cover it, and you might end up paying out of pocket.”
And of course there are other financial realities. Functional tests have exploded in popularity, and many are self-order, self-pay. One clinician described a patient spending $600/month chasing a theory about mycotoxins, while basic steps and a short trial of standard therapy ultimately helped more, and cost less.
Another patient wanted cortisol testing for stress, but instead of expensive –and potentially inconclusive– blood, saliva, and urine testing, the ultimate plan was a 30‑day empirical trial with clear signals to watch (e.g., measurable changes in sleep latency on a wearable). This combined with the patient’s lived experiences and symptoms, proved to provide the needed information, and ultimately led to positive outcomes, without an exorbitant cost.
Again, just because we can do a test does not always mean we should do the test, as it may not be necessary. That is where collaborating with a knowledgeable practitioner can help patients sort out the noise and stay focused on tests or interventions that truly inform care. More testing and interventions can always be added but sometimes keeping it simple can prove to be the best solution.
Set Upfront Expectations for Efficiency
Most visits run on tight time. The NPs described refraining from starting an appointment with an open-ended “how are you feeling today?” because it doesn’t answer the patient’s intent in scheduling the appointment. If instead, a practitioner asks, “When you leave today, what would make you minimally satisfied? What would make you thrilled?”, then they can quickly get to the bottom of why the patient is in the office, with a solid idea of their needs and desires.
As a patient, you can also use this information in reverse. Come prepared with an answer to that question, whether or not the practitioner asks. “I’m here for X and Y. At minimum, I’d like to leave with A. If there’s time, I’d also like to cover B and C.”
Patients also carry expectations from previous healthcare experiences. Some expect to be rushed; others expect a prescription. That’s why rapport matters. Corey said that he’ll ask about their family dog that they mentioned in a previous visit, not as small talk, but because later, when he messages the patient about abnormal labs, “I know what matters to them,” and recommendations land with more trust. Some patients bristle at non‑medical questions, which is understandable in a system that has not been built with trust as a pillar. But the intent is connection, not manipulation.
Practitioners: Life Outside the Chart
Great clinicians are pattern‑hunters, but the human body doesn't always follow the patterns. Asking about the dog, the job, the caregiving stress, or the new baby are details that don’t necessarily change a diagnosis, but they can change the plan and give insight into the likelihood of follow‑through.
“When I know what someone values—family, faith, pets, work—I can frame next steps in a way that respects their life,” Corey said. That makes long‑term decisions (like a sleep study, surgery, or starting lifelong medication) more realistic.
Allison added the practitioner’s craft of guiding without dismissing: “Experience teaches you to control the conversation with empathy while staying focused. You can listen to what they want to share about their lives and still say ‘We’ve got 15 minutes remaining. What are the two things you most want to tackle?’ without making people feel shut down.”
The Future: Teams, Time, and Better Records
While longer visits are on everyone’s wish list, this probably won't change in the near future. What might be possible is movement towards better team‑based care. Allison suggested this could look like nutritionists, health coaches, physical therapists, and behavioral health practitioners collaborating tightly “under one roof” so patients don’t feel “passed around”.
On the data side, Corey suggested that while a common electronic health record (EHR) may be a privacy nightmare, patient‑centric records that aggregate labs and notes in one file would make the patient-practitioner partnership much more effective. Patients would feel ownership over their records and their health, and their practitioner would have access to all relevant data in a uniform layout for efficient and more thorough analysis.
Where We’re Headed
The future of patient–practitioner relationships isn’t a perfect app or a magic blood test. It’s a culture shift: patients arrive as prepared collaborators; practitioners respond as empathetic strategists. The result is less frustration, greater confidence, and more hope in every decision.
“Seek first to understand, then to be understood,” one NP stated. In healthcare, that looks like shared preparation, transparency of processes, and curiosity that respects the humanity of each person in the room.
Disclaimer:
The information provided is for educational purposes only. Consult your physician or healthcare practitioner if you have specific questions before instituting any changes in your daily lifestyle including changes in diet, exercise, and supplement use.
Laura Lewis is a clinical researcher and science communicator with a Master of Science degree and a background in nutrition science and integrative health. She brings a decade of experience translating complex clinical data into accessible insights for healthcare practitioners and patients alike.
Laura has contributed to educational programming and strategic content development across the integrative and functional medicine space. Her strengths lie in evidence synthesis, practitioner engagement, and crafting communications that bridge the gap between scientific rigor and real-world application. At ARG, Laura supports clinical content development and educational initiatives that elevate practitioner confidence and product credibility.